How do I find the perfect gift for her?
It can be difficult to find the best gift for her, but most often the best gift for her is also the most personal gift. And then you're probably thinking: how exactly do you find the most personal and perfect gift for her? As men, we want to make sure the women in our lives are happy, and what better way is there to show that than to give your mother, grandmother, your girlfriend, wife or sister a really good gift?
There are hardly many better things you can do for her. But for us men, it is often easier said than done. Women are usually good at finding good gifts, but it immediately gets worse when it's us men who have to find the perfect gift for the woman in our lives. We try to coax wish lists out of her discreetly, but most often she wants very specific gifts, and therefore it can be difficult to buy a personal gift for her. Because how personal and fun can the gift be if it is 1 out of 3 wishes on her list? That's why we often have to put our heads down a lot when we have to find the perfect gift for her that is both fun, personal and unexpected. 
5 good tips on how to find the perfect gift for her
Fortunately, there is advice on how to come up with the perfect gift choice for her, and which rules to remember you can use to find the best gift for her. I have therefore collected 5 good tips on how to find the most perfect and fun gift for her:
1. Choose a gift she associates with your relationship
A good gift for her is one she can enjoy for many years, and which reminds her of your relationship or an experience you and her have had together. It can, for example, be something unique from the dating holiday you went on together, or from an experience you had together on a trip you and her.
2. Make sure the gift doesn't end up in the drawer
If you give her some make-up as a gift, your gift will probably be an object that ends up in the make-up drawer along with a sea of other make-up articles. Therefore, your gift for her will not stand out in particular, but will simply be one of many objects. My advice is therefore to choose something for her that she will use as often as possible - and preferably on a daily basis. The good gift for her, which she will use a lot, can therefore be something she can use in everyday life. Maybe something that she can carry around with her, or that she can use to decorate her apartment with. An example could be a nice purse in which she can keep her things when she is out, and thereby be constantly reminded of the gift from you. If it is something for the home, the perfect gift for her can e.g. be a picture book with your memories, which she may have standing on the shelf, or which may lie on her bedside table.
You can make a photo book for her via this link
3. Choose a gift for her that is unique.
Women, girls, mothers, sisters, grandmothers, pap sisters, bonus mothers – whatever you name it – all the women in our lives have in common that they want a gift that is unique to her. Therefore, it is an advantage if you can find a gift for her that has a distinctive character in one way or another. It can, for example, be if you buy her a bag, but put your own distinctive touch on it. It could also be that you buy a very special gift for her, of which you know there are no others.
Another suggestion for a unique gift for her is a gift that is unique because it required something from you to make for her. It can, for example, be that you have tailored a unique experience day for her, where you treat her to a whole day of fun activities. A good place to state can e.g. be with a restaurant visit to the restaurant "Dinner in the Dark", where you will eat and drink in pitch darkness. A gift of experience she is guaranteed to remember.
You can read more about the concept here
4. The perfect gift for her doesn't have to be materialistic
The perfect gift for her is not always the most expensive bag or the rarest earrings that you can get your hands on. The good and fun gift for her can also be a unique day or a unique experience that she has with you. Although she might want the expensive Balenciaga bag, it is probably not the bag that she will remember when she thinks of you in 20 years. Then she will think of you and the good memories she got as a gift from you.
The good memories mean much more to us and her, even though we also crave the materialistic things like expensive bags on the surface. But what is really important to her is actually that you have given her fun experiences as gifts. Maybe she will be overwhelmed by the balenciaga bag the first day she wears it, but then it will be everyday again, where she can't keep flying high about having received an expensive bag as a gift from you. On the other hand, she will live high and long on the fun experiences you have given her. Therefore, I would recommend that you think about tailoring some fun experiences and giving her a gift that will become fun memories she will have for the rest of her life. This is truly what matters when we want to give gifts to her in our lives. A good idea for a good experience gift for her could be a balloon flight for 2, which you can find via this link .
5. Give a gift to her who has demanded something from you
The girls and women in our lives want a gift that required something from you to make or give. If she can feel that you have done something extraordinary, which she may know has been difficult for you, then it is only an advantage for her. If she knows that it took something from you to make the gift, then the gift will be extra special and meaningful to her. We tend to place the greatest value on the gifts that we know have required something of us to make - and this especially applies to her in your life. Therefore, my advice to you is to go down a path that you might think is a bit over the top for you, as it will be the perfect gift for her that she will remember. It can, for example, be that you give her a declaration of love in a way that requires you to open up extra to her. We men are usually worse than our women at showing emotions, but if we can do just that, the woman in our life will attach extra importance to the gift, and you will score many points with her.
A gift that demands a lot from us men can, for example, be, to write a personal declaration of love to her, where we say how much she means to us, or how much the first holiday or the first experience with her means to us. That is, where it all started with her, and where the sparks flew for the first time. If you then simultaneously combine it with a photograph of you and her from the first holiday or first experience you had with her, you are now very well on your way to giving her something completely unique, which can be the perfect gift for her. Such a gift can e.g. be an Unmute to her.
On an Unmute, you get the opportunity to record a declaration of love to her, which you can combine with a picture of you and her. Then Unmute turns it into a physical talking picture frame that she can have hanging in her kitchen, or standing on her bedside table and hearing your declaration of love to her as soon as she misses you. It could also be any other gift for her in this ballpark that you come up with. The most important thing is that she should know that it really took something from you to open up like that - but if you manage to do it, she will love you for it.
Read more about what Unmute is and how to make a personal gift
